The
process of grooming a dog is so much more involved than many people
realize. Not only are we bathing, drying, cutting hair, and trimming
nails to make pets sparkle, groomers are constantly watching for
subtle body language signals from pets.
Every
cat and dog give signals to how they are feeling about certain
things. While we all know that a hissing cat is an unhappy or scared
cat, did you know that a cat who is blinking their eyes slowly is a
cat who trusts you? They feel safe in your presence. A cat who
falls asleep on the couch beside you trusts you. A cat who falls
asleep in your lap really trusts you. A cat who falls asleep in your
lap and begins to dream trusts you with their very life! Head boops
are a sign of deep affection. When a cat rubs their cheeks against
you, they are claiming you as theirs.
While
groomers will generally only see the alert,
upset, and sometimes downright angry
side of a cat, dogs show a much wider range of emotion during their
visits. Groomers are constantly on watch for signs that a dog is
becoming stressed. Things like turning their heads away, sideways
glances, big yawns, and lip licking are all signs that a dog might be
feeling a little too stressed out by their grooming. A stressed dog
might try to sniff the table while turning away in an attempt to tell
the groomer that they want to retreat in peace. Unfortunately, we
can’t always allow the groom to end at that moment so it is up to
the groomer to recognize these signals and change the dog’s mind!
Something as simple as a scratch behind the ears and some kind words
can make all the difference!
Groomers
want to see a happy, relaxed dog. This is a dog who has
an overall
“soft” appearance. They don’t appear tense or nervous. Their
movements are wiggly. They might flop a little when moved around.
Their tails might wag at a steady rate. If they are panting, their
lips are loose and not tight against their teeth. They might
suddenly burst into a wiggly play bow as the groomer walks around the
table. The ultimate goal of any groomer is to convince every dog
they see that this is how grooming should be!
Many
dogs are not so sure though. They might show signs of being stressed
or simply just nervous. They might be tense, shifting their weight
from paw to paw. They might keep one paw slightly raised. Their ears
might either be constantly moving or pinned back against their heads.
A groomer needs to know the dogs they work so they remember if this
is normal for the dog or not. During times of high stress such as
around the holiday seasons, even the most mellow, relaxed dog might
become more tense for their grooming sessions simply due to all the
changes around them.
At
times, groomers might use their own body language to “talk” to
the dogs in a way the dogs are more likely to understand. They might
half blink or do a small yawn to show they are relaxed. They might
drop their shoulders and turn slightly to the side to be
non-threatening. Or, if a dog is starting to act up, a groomer might
stand taller and more square to show they are not going to put up
with foolishness. A particularly rambunctious dog might even receive
a hard, direct stare to show the groomer means business. As soon as
the dog settles and looks away, the groomer will then relax, yawn a
little, and continue on. Quite often “talking” to the dogs in
their own language produces better results than trying to coo and
calm them with human language!
“Talking”
to dogs with their own body language goes beyond the grooming salon
as well! If your dog is nervous around certain things such as
blowing plastic bags while on a walk, putting on an aura of calm by
being relaxed and yawning a little, can help to put your dog at ease!
If it doesn’t bother you, maybe it isn’t so scary after all!
You can even “talk” to your cat by slowly blinking at them or
rubbing your cheek against theirs when they come to you for
attention!